I am a huge fan of Patrice, but for anyone to take his advice and try to apply it exactly like him verbatim without having their own "ethic" or "philosophy," they'll be taking a big chance of being met with many negative results.
Patrice was a large man with an intimidating presence upon meeting him. So, after his barrage of controversial opinion and jokes making fun of a chick to break down the air of her being on an imaginary pedestal, his charm of apologizing and just joking around without making fun of her would disarm the entire situation.
Ultimately, just the way Patrice could use analogies and jokes to make his points come across in a "stingingly quick" manner would be what made his relationship advice so intriguing.
The bottom line, though, was for a dude to maintain his own identity and not be too in love with a woman or to not be allowed to be broken down by a woman's nagging. Patrice and Dante Nero's assessment that women constantly try to test the karate masters is just their nature so that they can find out if their man is indeed the man that can protect her; "How's a man supposed to protect his woman if he can't protect himself from his woman?" A man has to be consistently inconsistent in order to keep his woman.
Not everyone finds this all this out, unfortunately. Patrice's frustration was having to deal with all the rejection being an obese person writing romantic rebus messages. His frustration was that he had to go into his late twenties and travel ALL the way to FREAKING Brazil to find out that him making his happiness in a relationship paramount is what is going to keep his woman from nagging him into a weak man. Patrice's frustration was that the testing and the nagging just never stops; a guy can't just sit side-by-side and be in love and the relationship be smooth. His frustration was having to come deal with being "lovable" upfront in a relationship via financial stability, social status, and charm while a woman merely just judges if he she will consider sleeping with him and then expecting him to love her as much she loves him just because she "opened her legs." Patrice's frustration was that guys all over were succumbing to this ultimatum-type of relationship where a man feels forced to say they love a woman just so he doesn't have to deal with her walking out and then having to put in all that work on another woman who's going to have the same expectations for up-front love from the man. Patrice's frustration was that guys all over were not coming to the to these realizations until being broken down into weak men. He hated that guys were suffering by not keeping things in check.
One of Patrice's talking points was that not every women is going to be down for the type of relationship a man wants and the way a man will carry out the relationship (e.g., the man's happiness being paramount). He needs a "human resources department" to always have women ready to subscribe to his relationship style because at any time a woman can decide it isn't for her and just leave "without two-weeks notice." A man should keep his mojo up by talking women all the time as if he was trying to get her in the event that he and his girl break it off.
Not just Patrice's advice, but his reasons for how he came up with his advice are what make The Black Phillip Show and his appearances on Opie and Anthony valuable food for thought for any person interested in having a better relationship. Copying Patrice will lead to a man's downfall because many men lack his genius-like, rapid ability to apply logic, analogies, and humor to get ideas to sink in. It's up to every guy to use his own logic and analogies to make it point. So go ahead and have at his advice, but, just don't expect to get results done the same way.
